International Day for People with Disabilities at Ekwetsembeni Special School

Today is International Day for People with Disabilities and I spent the better part of it at Ekwetsembeni Special School in Mbabane. An organisation called Farai Foundation (I hope to write about them soon), with the help of other sponsors, threw a Christmas party for the children at the school. I had planned to go to the function about a week ago, then something upset me and I decided I would spend the day moping. Then early this morning the managing editor of the paper I contribute to called and asked me to come to the function. I wasn’t particularly dismayed about going because I had initially planned to go. I am glad I attended.

Being a mom to an autistic child, there are times when I feel autism is the absolute worst thing that ever happened to this planet. Attending the Ekwetsembeni Christmas party made me think; hmm autism is probably not the worst of conditions (I still wish I could wish it away regardless). I saw children with all manner of physical disabilities, some that I had never seen before. I don’t know if this is a sin, but I found myself with a lump in my throat and hot tears in my eyes asking, “Where was God when all this was happening?” Most of the children were evidently from disadvantaged backgrounds and it was quite sad to think about what their future looked like in country where people with disabilities are not fully supported. It strengthened my resolve to keep raising awareness on disabilities and the pushing for the need to support people with them so that they reach their optimal.
Head Teacher of Ekwetsembeni Special School, Thembi Dlamini said she was very grateful to Prince Majaha and Farai Foundation for their kindness and bringing smiles on the children’s faces. The school caters for children with different intellectual disabilities varying from Down Syndrome, cerebral palsy, autism, ADHD, among others. Dlamini said some of the children do not even have proper diagnoses, but the school still accepts them into their system. They are then assessed, placed into ungraded classes and taught according to their levels of functioning. A child might be found to be doing Grade 3 English, Grade 5 Mathematics and other subjects from different grades. There are some that end up being recommended for inclusive education and proper grading after proving they can do well in such an environment. At around 16 years of age, those children that cannot be mainstreamed start vocational training. They are taught gardening, washing cars, art and crafts, and other skills. Dlamini said even though the school gets the same funding that all government primary schools get, the school would appreciate donations so that they can be able to buy raw materials for their crafts and other things they need for vocational training. The funding does not cover that. 

People with disabilities should only fail to get somewhere because of natural limitations that cannot be surpassed, never because society failed them by not creating an enabling environment. What I yearn for all people with disabilities is access to education and health care. The world is too rich for people with disabilities to go through life without those two essential needs. It only takes a bit of commitment from government, the corporate world and society in general to ensure that people with disabilities are able to lead a dignified life. Farai Foundation joined forces with many organisations and the day was a resounding success. It can be done – on an even bigger scale than one day events (not to belittle what Farai Foundation did, but to encourage people that we can go bigger and better). Imagine how the country, or the continent of Africa would be if everyone who could would financially adopt a child with a disability by offering to put him/her through school and providing all the necessities? People resent it when people with disabilities sit by roadsides asking for alms, but how do they not take to the streets if they are not educated?

Congratulations Farai Foundation for hosting a successful event. It was very heartwarming to see how happy the children were. However, I wish the playlist had been more carefully selected. Playing Nasty C's Juice Back and Hell Naw at a children's party was a quite in bad taste.
What have you done lately to assist someone with a disability?