One day while hanging out with my friends, one of them told a
ridiculous joke. The other went, “Lol you’re such a retard!” I told her that
wasn’t a word to be used lightly or to be poked fun at because it is an
insulting way to refer to people with mental, physical, and emotional disabilities.
It is especially used offensively on those with intellectual disabilities. The
same goes for idiot, imbecile, and moron. They are not good words at all
regardless of the context in which they are being used. When I called out my
friend on that, she just said, “Lol you take life too seriously! It’s just a
word!” Words aren’t just words. They are powerful; no wonder why we have the
adage, “The pen is mightier than the sword.” The tongue is too. Words have the
power to heal or rip people’s hearts to shreds thus need to be chosen carefully.
Language use if a big factor that works to sideline or
include other people. When it insults people with disabilities, it is termed ableist language. Ableist language is
any word that causes intentional or unintentional harm or insult to a person
with a disability, either of the body or the mind. People usually mean no
offence when they say the derogatory words. They just flow freely and some have
just become part of everyday speech. Still that does not make it right to say
them. The same way people feel about racism, xenophobia, and religious
intolerance is the same way people with disabilities feel about ableist
language; it is the same way everyone should feel about it.
The word disabled itself is loaded with negative connotations
if used thoughtlessly. Think of someone
saying, “Please disable the Wi-Fi.” In this context it would mean deactivate
it, put it out of action, make it not work. Once people hear dis-ability, then
they are ready to dismiss, disregard, and even discard the individual with the
disability. These undertones are what make the term people with disabilities more preferable to disabled people. The former is known
as people-first language while the latter is identity-first language. Although
most people prefer people-first language, there are some that prefer
identity-first language. Those that are
pro-people-first language say it avoids defining a person in term of his or her
disability while the other group considers their disabilities to be inseparable
parts of who they are.
The
discrepancy in how people with disabilities prefer to be described poses a
challenge for journalists and other communications people in some instances. In
other instances, however, journalists use downright unacceptable terms. In such
cases it is usually due to pure ignorance of what’s appropriate, rather than a deliberate intention to offend.
Some offensive terms were actually used, some of them still are, in legal and
medical contexts, but are not supposed to be thrown around in the dissemination
of news and in general conversation. The medical and legal terms ought to be
changed too. I have seen news articles describing deaf people as deaf and dumb,
where dumb is meant to mean non-verbal. Dumb or mute are not acceptable to the
Deaf community anymore. Dumb, in particular, is also used casually to mean
foolish. It is also not considered right to talk about “normal people” in
reference to those that do not have disabilities. When you classify them as
normal, then what would be the opposite? There would be a group that you are
classifying as abnormal, and that is
not appropriate. It is more suitable to refer to a specific disability an
individual has instead of just generalizing and describing them as disabled or
abnormal. As for those without disabilities, activists say the term typical is more welcome, and the
opposite would be atypical. One might
roll their eyes and say it’s just semantics, but it really is not. There is
always a better way of saying something.
On the subject of mentioning disabilities in news articles,
disability advocates emphasise that disabilities should only be mentioned if
they are relevant to the story. For instance, sometime last year a man who had
albinism was murdered and headlines were screaming with “Albino murdered”.
While there are some unfortunate events when people with albinism are killed
for their body parts around the continent, this particular man had no missing
body parts and there was no proof that his albinism had anything to do with his
murder. In the end, emphasis seems to be on the albinism rather than the fact
that a man had been killed. There have also been instances when there are
reports of people with disabilities committing crimes. Some reporters will be
very keen to mention the disability, even though it has no bearing on the case.
Regarding cognitive disabilities, sometimes there are
reports about children suffering from
autism or Down syndrome. “Suffering” gives the impression that these children
are in distress or are writhing in agony, which is hardly the case. If anyone
is in distress where autism is concerned, it would be the parent not the child
who has it. Others in the community will also refer to such children or
individuals as sick, and that’s also
a poor choice. Some are just tactless, but most are just at a loss of the
appropriate thing to say. This is where the media should come in to inform the
community on the right thing to say, not perpetuate discrimination. When my
son’s autism rears its ugly head in public, I’ve seen people struggling for the
right way to ask what’s up with him. I can see them tiptoe on eggshells asking
any of the questions: “What’s wrong with him, does he have ‘issues’, is he
different, does he have a condition?” Thankfully, I do not mind responding and
explaining autism as many people don’t know about it until they meet someone
who has it.
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